Post Raya

Alhamdulillah..
Hari ini 27 Ramadhan dan 2 hari lagi kita bakal menyambut Syawal.
Aku sebagai insan tak lari dari melakukan kesilapan memohon maaf di atas segala perbuatan dan tutur kata yang tidak sopan. Selamat Hari Raya Maaf Zahir dan Batin


Buat suami tersayang,
Ribuan kemaafan dipinta atas segala keterlanjuran sikap yang kadangkala memerlukan kesabaran yang tinggi.
Saya sedar kadangkala sikap saya tidak lagi menunjukkan kematangan yang sepatutnya tetapi saya mencuba ke arah yang lebih baik dan menjadi isteri solehah.
Kasih sayang saya terhadap sayang InsyaAllah kekal ke akhir hayat.


Ikhlas,
Fatimah Hishamuddin

Four Wives

The Four Wives
Author Unknown

Once upon a time, there was a rich merchant who had 4 wives.  He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies.  He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.He also loved the 3rd wife very much.  He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends.  However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.
He loved his 2nd wife, too.  She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.
Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.
One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon.  He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!" Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"
"No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.
The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"
"No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here!  I'm going to remarry when you die!"
The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?"
"I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave."
The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.
Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go.
"The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have!"

We all have 4 wives in our lives. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.
Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.
The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material wealth and sensual pleasure. It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than wait until we're on our death bed to lament. 

The Most

The most selfish 1 letter word 

"I" 

Avoid it.

The most satisfying 2-letter word 

"WE" 

Use it.

The most poisonous 3-letter word 

"EGO" 

Kill it.

The most used 4-letter word 

"LOVE" 

Value it.

The most pleasing 5-letter word 

"SMILE" 

Keep it.

The fastest spreading 6-letter word 

"RUMOUR" 

Ignore it.

The hardest working 7-letter word 

"SUCCESS" 

Achieve it.

The most enviable 8-letter word 

"JEALOUSY" 

Distance it.

The most powerful 9-letter word 

"KNOWLEDGE" 

Acquire it.

The most essential 10-letter word 

"CONFIDENCE" 

Trust it

Alhamdulillah

Alhamdulillah sudah 11 hari Umat Islam berpuasa. Begitu juga aku. Masih diberi kekuatan dan kesihatan oleh Allah SWT untuk menjalankan ibadah puasa. Walaupun minggu lepas diuji dengan kesihatan yang kurang baik namun aku gagahkan diri juga berpuasa dan Alhamdulillah Tuhan membantu hambanya yang memerlukan pertolongan. Dan semalam juga di kala aku tak berdaya apabila sejak pagi lagi semua makanan yang dimakan sahur dikeluarkan semula tanpa keinginan, aku masih lagi meneruskan puasa aku ini. Kala itu memang aku sudah hampir putus asa dan terasa mahu membatalkan puasa tapi mungkin kerana tiada syaitan yang menghasut diri aku pun memujuk dengan mengatakan niat kerana Allah pasti Allah akan membantu. Dan Alhamdulillah dalam keadaan yang tidak berdaya aku masih mampu menghabiskan puasa aku. Syukur Alhamdulillah. Ramai yang aku mendengar kisah2 dari rakan2 yang sudah berpengalaman menceritakan mereka tidak berdaya langsung berpuasa di kala berkeadaan seperti aku. Tapi aku tahu aku perlu gagahkan diri dan sentiasa memohon kekuatan dari Allah SWT kerana sesungguhnya hanya Allah yang Maha Besar boleh memberikan pertolongan kepada hambaNya. InsyaAllah aku bertabah untuk menghabiskan puasa aku pada tahun ini.

Klinik

Hari ni memang sangat lemah. Tak tahan dan pergila jugak klinik balik skolah tadi.


Masalah
Infection dalam hidung menyebabkan bengkak dan radang.
Infection juga telah menyebabkan sakit2 badan.
Tekak mula membengkak disebabkan kelenjar.
Kelenjar telah menyebabkan kepala menjadi berat dan sakit.
Demam
~ Memang sakit sangat kepala tadi tapi gagahkan diri jugak pergi sekolah


Penyebab
1. tak cukup rehat
2. cuaca yang sekejap panas sekejap hujan
3. faktor pemakanan
~ tak cukup rehat lagi ke??nak cukup macam mana la ek...


Nasihat doktor
1. Jangan minum ais
2. Jangan makan seafood
3. Jangan makan makanan begoreng
4. Jangan makan kacang2 or kerepek2 
5. Jangan pergi bazar
~dr tak bagi pegi bazar..sbb rmai org and udara pon tak bgs.terlalu banyak asap..seafood pon tak boleh makan..sabar je la..


Ubat
1. Antibiotik
2. Demam
3. selsema
4. Sakit tekak
~ dr da boleh bagi ubat cume ubat yang dose rendah je untuk tak memberi kesan pada bayi dalam perut. tadi dr scan lagi dapat tgk baby. wahh..baby da besar n nampak gerak2..sronok sgt.. kalau tak bg ubat dr kate skrg da infection nnt infection kat peparu plak..so, untuk untuk kesihatan ibu perlula juga mkn ubat..


p/s ~ so tomorrow i got medical leave..rehat la puas2 kat umah..:)